There are very few fashion accessories that a man can wear
and still maintain his masculinity, and that’s a fact. I totally agree because
if you want to have a macho and manly appearance, we can’t be decked up like a
Christmas tree, can we? Unlike our female counterparts, men’s accessories are
only limited to belts, ties, cufflinks, bags, hats, scarves (more choices for
the metrosexuals), necklaces, bracelets and watches. However, the threshold and
acceptable level of how many and what type of accessories a guy can wear has
increased and definitely evolved especially since the turn of the century.
Watch as an ultimate men's accesories (pic from google search) |
To be honest, I am not an accessory person. Most times I
find men’s accessories excessive and unnecessary. Well, that’s my personal
opinion, but with the exception of the watch. I really like watches. I guess growing up in the mid 70s to
80s, my mind had been ingrained by the general consensus with the notion that a
masculine man shouldn’t be wearing fancy accessories and hence the only one
accessory that I could explore and experiment was the watch.
Most of us have one, don't we? (pic from www.theverge.com) |
Since the creation of the Smartphone, the original idea and
reason for wearing a watch (which is to tell time) has been eroded so much so
that an increasing number of men are now without a watch. Yeah, I agree with
that cause even though I still love my watches and wear each religiously everyday,
to be honest, I don’t actually look at it for the time anymore. Normally, I
just fish out my phone and look at the time. Saying such, I feel that the watch
is one important fashion accessory that completes our whole dressing. In
addition, the kind of watch a man wears, can actually tell what man-type he
belongs to, his interests as well as his fashion style.
What sort of men you are? (pic from www.grasiemercedes.com) |
So what kind of watches suits the masculine, big, and
bear-like person? Well of course choosing the right watch depends on the
occasion that you’ll be wearing it as well. Hence, to simplify the matter, I
have categorized to four different occasions: Work, Casual/Parties, Sports
activities and Formal occasions. Except for formal occasions, I normally wear
similar kind of watches to work, casual and party outings, and sports
activities (I guess it also depends on your profession). I’m not a formal
occasion sort of person hence in this post, I will skip this yeah. There are a
few pointers to watch out for when looking for a suitable watch for the
bear-like men out there and they are:
Macho man, the Rock wearing a big and chunky watch. (pic from http://professionalwatches.com) |
Point 1. Size
Regardless of what the occasion is, I realized that bigger
size men have to wear bigger and chunkier watches, duh! Isn’t that obvious! But
wait there’s more. While too small a watch will probably enhance a womanish appearance, too
large a size will make your wrist look small and will have the same effect too hence ‘feminizing’ your entire look and you obviously don’t want that! So the point is here that you
have to strike a balance of not having a size that’s too small nor too large.
So what is the right size then? It should be between at minimum, three quarter
to a maximum of a full wrist size. Of course some critics may not agree with
me as it does not apply to formal watches, but I don’t really care cause I
don’t wear formal watches anyway!
Way too SMALL and feminine (pic from forums.watchuseek.com) |
Feminizing your appearance with too HUGE a watch! |
My favourite material is steel although some of the
plastic/rubber ones look quite good too. Steel bracelet will definitely enhance
your masculinity while the rubber strap will give you a sportier look. Also, if
you have lots of money to spare, the precious metals i.e. gold or platinum will
be fantastic too! One material that you should avoid for the larger wrists’ is
the leather strap. This is seen in many formal watches and as much as I like the leather feel on my skin unfortunately most often it doesn’t look good on bigger
size men. There is exception to this of course. If the leather strap is given a
“testosterone injection” meaning that it is created much bigger in thickness
and size where the balance of the watch and strap is adjusted to perfection, this
will actually work for the larger men.
Baltimore Ravens Coach, John Harbaugh wearing a steel bracelet Rolex Submariner (pic from http://www.crownandcaliber.com) |
Rubber/Plastic watch are fun, sporty and cool! |
"Testosterone injected" Leather Strap (pic from www.watchesonnet.com) |
Point 3. Colours
Well I always think that a military green or gunmetal grey
is very masculine. In addition, darker shades of blue or black are nice too but
sometimes can be a bit boring and dull. To avoid that, you can choose a
‘busier’ dial i.e. chronograph, should you choose the latter shades. As
for vivid colours like orange, red, purple, etc, I guess if it suits your
personality, then go for it! But please remember that as long as it’s not
embellished with fussy diamantes and jewels, a pop of colour can be fun and
sporty! Make sure you follow the first rule of fashion: less is more. The trick
here is that if you have a dull colour watch, you can afford to have a fancier dial
while the more vivid the colour is, the less complicated the design of the
watch should be.
Add a pop of colour but with simpler dial! |
Point 4. Digital vs. Analog
Well, if you ask me, both are fine as long as the design suits
your personality. Although I personally prefer the analog watches, there’re
some really cool and masculine digital watches from G-Shock that I really like.
If you prefer something that has a little sophistication to your outlook, then
the analog watch is for you while wearing the digital watch will give you a
much sportier look. Besides, wearing a watch nowadays is not really to tell
time but more as a fashion piece, hence the analog will be a better option for
the more trendy guys as it has more design choices compared to the digital
ones.
Arnold wearing a digital watch (pic from mygshock.com) |
Point 5. Shape
I personally think that round watches are the nicest on the
wrist although I have no objection to those who favour the rectangular or
square ones. The shape that you should totally avoid is the OVAL and IRREGULAR
shape ones. Please note that in my personal opinion, these shapes are made for
women only although no offense to the fashion forward people, you may be able
to carry the look well! But to the beefcakes out there, I generally advise you
to stick to the round and rectangular shapes instead.
All the NO-NOs for a masculine look!!! Usher wearing an over-the-top OVAL shaped embellished with diamonds watch coupled with THIN leather strap (pic from www.luxist.com) |
For those of you who are not that adventurous in dressing up
and probably still experimenting on how to accessorize yourself to look better,
I suggest to start with the watch. This is definitely one accessory that you
can wear comfortably without being afraid of looking too metrosexual. Remember,
go with bigger size and start with safer colours so that you’ll enjoy the
process of accessorizing while still maintaining the macho demeanour in you!
Finally, please note that I am not a spokesperson for any
watch companies and not paid to endorse any particular brand. Whatever I posted
here is just my personal opinion, what I am interested in and what I think is suitable
for bigger size men.
Till the next post, this is Jimen signing out! Be happy
always! Cheers.
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